If you want to have phone sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend, but you don’t know what to say, we have the article to help you.
You could begin with the question, “what are you wearing?”, but where do you go from here? And what else should you say during phone sex?
The reason the phrase “what are you wearing?” is important is to set the scene and helps as the person at the other end of the phone cannot see you! Now you can either tell the truth at this point or you can use your imagination to excite your fellow phone sex partner at the other end of the line! Of course you could also get dress-up (or down) as you wish to get you in the mood for chatting on the phone in a sexy way.
It is also sexy for your partner to hear you talk about what you’re doing to yourself, especially if he or she thinks that they inspired what you are doing. So tell your partner exactly what you’re wearing and describe in detail how it feels to slip off each piece of clothing. Let you partner experience what you are feeling and give them every little detail about what you are doing to yourself with your fingers.
Remember, that it is not necessary to be totally accurate about your clothing, you can use artistic licence to be provocative to your partner, find out what they like you to wear or not to wear and use this to your advantage when chatting on the phone. So even if you are just wearing jeans and a t-shirt, feel free to tell your partner in the case of a women that you are wearing high heels, suspenders and his favorite red thong and matching bra.
Also, you don’t have to actually be doing everything you say you are doing, it’s what you say that counts, as they can’t see you they can only hear you, so their imagination will be running wild and this makes the whole process of phone sex fun.
The key to good phone sex is to be as descriptive as you can and talk with passion and even put on your sexiest voice. Use your imagination and use their extra imagnation by saying, for example, “I’m brushing my lips across the back of your neck” or “I am running my hands over your naked body”. Be specific about your partners body and use references to parts of their body you know and they know you know, so that it makes the experience feel real.
You must keep in mind that there is no right or wrong way to refer to body parts or of how to perform phone sex. As with regular sex it is about getting to know your partner and what they like. Everyone has particular words or phrases that turn them on and you will get to know what these are and they may even be different on the phone, so don’t be shy and don’t be afraid to experiment.
The easiest way to find out what your partner likes is to listen to them and ask. Heavy breathing, soft moans and sighs of pleasure go a long way all on their own for men.
If you are still feeling shy don’t worry, give it time and you will begin to relax and enjoy yourself? It takes practice to be comfortable saying new thingsand the only way to learn is just to do it.